Breaking ups

When you love someone you usually find yourself doing the craziest shit. That could be for anyone that you love, your mom, your kids, or your the person that your in love with. It seems like there is just no bounds as to what you would do for them. But when so you know that what your doing is to much. I guess thats where you find that there is a difference in love. For your parents the limits would show within your relationship with them. Most of us would like to think that you would do anything for them but i'm sure that just isn't true. Your kids on the other hand i'm sure that you would give your left testicle or your life for that matter just to make sure that they will be ok. But when you are in love with someone and your not married and he's just your boyfriend, what is it that tells you that the love that you have for him can only stretch so far? It varies for everyone because we are all different, but the hardest part is letting go, you might think how much this guy actually meant to you. The break up part is something that varies for everyone too, so what do you do after you break up?Thats when you buy a gallon of ice cream, a case of wine, a pack of cigarettes, and an Amy Winehouse Album, and sit in your room get wasted while calling your best friends telling them how hurt you are in the slurred words that could barely communicate what happened. Plus having a mouth full of ice cream doesn't help you talk either. Break ups never really have them same effects for every relationship, but when you find yourself at that point of being both wasted from wine and ice cream you know that this person was someone who impacted your life. Whether you would like to acknowledge it or not there are those few moments in life that would bring to this point of embarrassment and this is one of them. But when you do this after every break up and your only dating this guy for a month, seriously bitch, get your ass up and go to the bar. Find a guy to take your ass home and just have sex with his ass. Because if your this torn up with a guy after a month you seriously might have some attachment issues and should find a therapist quick, because no man likes a clingy bitch. But if you had this guy for a while and didn't cheat on him, then i would say get the damn ice cream, and just let that shit out. Like i said all relationships are different and not all people are the same either, so our reactions are all different too. But when you loose someone that is that special to you, you deserve that tub of ice cream and as much wine as you wanna drink. Fuck the world with that whole bouncing back shit, you should just take a break.