Monday, September 8, 2014

Why straights guys??

Well i guess i have found something that would be pretty interesting to write about, me and a friend of mine have decided that we would start writing about a few things that could catch some attention. So this is what I came up with.




Sex, sometimes is something that isn't talked about openly and honestly among most men. Although being gay sex is talked about more commonly than anything, advertisements geared to gay men about knowing your status about HIV and STD related diseases. Although it is common within the gay community, straight men have a more conservative view on sex. Despite bragging about how they banged this chick from the bar last Friday and how she was “stacked,” straight guys have found new excitements that are the corner stone of gay sex since the dawn of time. Lately I came across an advertisement while participating in my late night jerk a woman taking an anal pounding gang bang. Of course my first reaction was, “eww vagina” and then a sudden loss of a stiff when i couldn't take my eyes off of this wondering why the hell is she doing this? Why would a woman with no prostate want to do this, besides that this bitch is probably getting paid more then i make in two months working at my job for just one scene. Then i thought that women couldn't really do this for pleasure with their boyfriends, that would just be stupid. But to my surprise this is actually a lot less uncommon than i thought. When i clocked in for work i decided that i would ask some of my coworkers what their thoughts were about this whole topic and why they would want anal sex with their girlfriends or wives. The most common reaction that i got was that they saw it on porn and thats where they have gotten the idea. When i asked how and when was their first time it varied. One of them said that first time ever having sex was anal and others said that it was kind of an accident that it happened. Still curious i did what every person would do, although i felt like a 14 year old boy looking for porn under the sheets of my bed. According to Cosmo men want to have anal sex because it makes them feel like they have more power within the relationship or it was something that they have seen on porn. But to be perfectly honest sexual exploration is always something that i have been totally cool about, i mean if you wanna trying anything with your boyfriend or girlfriend and their cool with it then why not. But i still didn't understand why straight men would want to have anal sex when they would say that taking it up the ass is just shameful. So when my next day at work came along i asked the guys once more, why is having anal sex with your girlfriend different from me and my boyfriend having anal sex? The only answer that was given was that, giving anal is different from getting anal, its cool when your giving anal sex because you dont have a dick in your ass and when you do it just makes you a bitch, is just the just of that conversation. But when i asked what about the gay men that are just tops and they dont like to receive it just give it? Well the response was still something that was less surprising, “your still fucking a guy so that still makes you a bitch.” So now matter what the act is the thought that a man and another man have anal sex is shameful. Out of a mild fit of irritation i suggested that their girlfriends are bitches then too they too take it in the ass. Of course their faces immediately dropped and looked a little angry when i suggested this in the argument. Of course they covered their tracks saying that they love their girlfriends that and their not bitches and its different for women. In any case anal sex for straight people seem like its mainly just for the men of the relationship, just trying to get a taste of what it would be like to have a little gay experience. Whether its a power struggle or something that could of just happened on “accident.” It would seem that every straight men that has participated in anal sex with their girlfriends have an underlining sexual fantasy or interest in seeing what gay men experience. Its like the saying goes, “you have to try everything at least once.” Although these men havent tried anything with a man therefore keeping their status as straight, i still impose the question as to why would straight men want to do something that is classified as a shameful act for two men, with their girlfriends? Like i said before, I'm all down for some sexual exploration as long as everyone is cool with it, but if you say it makes you a “bitch” to take a dick up the ass, then i would say you might want to rethink of what you think about your girlfriend. 

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